R-E-S-P-E-C-T: South Hadley nears code of conduct
by Chad Cain
by Chad Cain
SOUTH HADLEY - The town is on the verge of adopting a new code of conduct, a step that members of an anti-bullying task force view as one of its most important initiatives in the aftermath of an alleged bullying-related suicide.
The code, crafted by a Community Programs subgroup of the Anti-Bullying Task Force, would be prominently displayed at various public places for residents and visitors to see. It reads, "I will respect myself and my community by acting with responsibility, courtesy, integrity, and kindness."
The code further asks people to follow several basic guidelines that spell out the word "respect." Those guidelines include respond with integrity and kindness, embrace diversity, stand up courageously for others, promote a climate of safety, eliminate hurtful words and rumors, care for and listen to others with compassion and take responsibility for your actions.
South Hadley High School teachers Amy Foley and Tina Lesniak presented the code, modeled after a similar policy in place in Alberta, Canada, to the Select Board Tuesday, and also will present it to the School Committee.
Then work will begin to get the word out to the community. In addition to traditional methods such as bumper stickers, T-shirts and magnets, volunteers will conduct a door-to-door canvass of town on Saturday, June 12, to share the new policy with residents.
"I think the most important thing is to go out into the community and get feedback and ideas," Lesniak told the board.
The code will be "honored and encouraged at all community events, including athletic events." Once adopted, Foley said the task force will recommend posting it in various public places, including schools, town offices and community buildings.
Officials said the code of conduct is one of several positive steps being taken in the community in the aftermath of a tragic death. Fifteen-year-old Phoebe Prince hanged herself in January after allegedly being tormented by schoolmates. In addition to the code of conduct, other initiatives on the horizon involve creation of a youth commission and establishing a suicide-prevention coalition.
"My feeling is there is a lot of support in the town, more so than is reflected in the press," Foley said.
Additionally, a community meeting has been scheduled for Thursday, May 27, in the high school auditorium.
The meeting will attempt to harness people's need to act and to engage them in a conversation about what direction the town should head following the Prince tragedy and what events they would like to see that might help the community come together, Foley said.
Youth commission
After voters at Town Meeting earlier this month gave selectmen the go-ahead to create a youth commission, the Selectboard spent some time Tuesday discussing what the commission's mission will be and how it will be structured.
Such commissions can survey issues facing young people in town and make recommendations about actions that can be taken.
Member Bruce MacCullagh, who has been researching other communities with such commissions, floated the idea of a nine-member commission that would include three youths and a member or designated representative from the School Committee, Selectboard, Council on Aging, Board of Health, Recreation Commission and Police Department.
Member Marilyn G. Ishler didn't think the Council of Aging should be represented on the commission, and Vice Chairman Robert G. Judge questioned the idea of setting aside seats for any specific organizations.
MacCullagh, however, said those groups could designate residents to sit on the commission instead of filling the slots with one of their own.
In the end, the board agreed to bring in representatives from youth commissions in neighboring communities to get some additional ideas on what the town's commission should look like.
Efforts to establish a suicide-prevention coalition are also on the horizon. Judge and four representatives from the South Hadley schools this week are attending a statewide conference hosted by the state public health department's Suicide-Prevention Program, including one workshop on how to form such coalitions.
Judge said that after the conference ends today, he and those from the school district who attended will discuss what steps should be taken in order to propose a coalition.
Chad Cain can be reached at ccain@gazettenet.com.
The code, crafted by a Community Programs subgroup of the Anti-Bullying Task Force, would be prominently displayed at various public places for residents and visitors to see. It reads, "I will respect myself and my community by acting with responsibility, courtesy, integrity, and kindness."
The code further asks people to follow several basic guidelines that spell out the word "respect." Those guidelines include respond with integrity and kindness, embrace diversity, stand up courageously for others, promote a climate of safety, eliminate hurtful words and rumors, care for and listen to others with compassion and take responsibility for your actions.
South Hadley High School teachers Amy Foley and Tina Lesniak presented the code, modeled after a similar policy in place in Alberta, Canada, to the Select Board Tuesday, and also will present it to the School Committee.
Then work will begin to get the word out to the community. In addition to traditional methods such as bumper stickers, T-shirts and magnets, volunteers will conduct a door-to-door canvass of town on Saturday, June 12, to share the new policy with residents.
"I think the most important thing is to go out into the community and get feedback and ideas," Lesniak told the board.
The code will be "honored and encouraged at all community events, including athletic events." Once adopted, Foley said the task force will recommend posting it in various public places, including schools, town offices and community buildings.
Officials said the code of conduct is one of several positive steps being taken in the community in the aftermath of a tragic death. Fifteen-year-old Phoebe Prince hanged herself in January after allegedly being tormented by schoolmates. In addition to the code of conduct, other initiatives on the horizon involve creation of a youth commission and establishing a suicide-prevention coalition.
"My feeling is there is a lot of support in the town, more so than is reflected in the press," Foley said.
Additionally, a community meeting has been scheduled for Thursday, May 27, in the high school auditorium.
The meeting will attempt to harness people's need to act and to engage them in a conversation about what direction the town should head following the Prince tragedy and what events they would like to see that might help the community come together, Foley said.
Youth commission
After voters at Town Meeting earlier this month gave selectmen the go-ahead to create a youth commission, the Selectboard spent some time Tuesday discussing what the commission's mission will be and how it will be structured.
Such commissions can survey issues facing young people in town and make recommendations about actions that can be taken.
Member Bruce MacCullagh, who has been researching other communities with such commissions, floated the idea of a nine-member commission that would include three youths and a member or designated representative from the School Committee, Selectboard, Council on Aging, Board of Health, Recreation Commission and Police Department.
Member Marilyn G. Ishler didn't think the Council of Aging should be represented on the commission, and Vice Chairman Robert G. Judge questioned the idea of setting aside seats for any specific organizations.
MacCullagh, however, said those groups could designate residents to sit on the commission instead of filling the slots with one of their own.
In the end, the board agreed to bring in representatives from youth commissions in neighboring communities to get some additional ideas on what the town's commission should look like.
Efforts to establish a suicide-prevention coalition are also on the horizon. Judge and four representatives from the South Hadley schools this week are attending a statewide conference hosted by the state public health department's Suicide-Prevention Program, including one workshop on how to form such coalitions.
Judge said that after the conference ends today, he and those from the school district who attended will discuss what steps should be taken in order to propose a coalition.
Chad Cain can be reached at ccain@gazettenet.com.




